The benefit of not having a face is that there is no expression as you try to quickly process a barrage of questions most of which you had never bothered to think of before.
"Relative? I guess I seem to measure up to the adult specimens of most species I've met so far at least in terms of judgement and thought. Playing catch up in the realm of experience but I seem to be making good headway. Authority? I wouldn't say pushing back against it is related to identity. I mean I tried it for awhile to see what it was like, and I can't say I
care for it - too limiting, but I don't thumb my nose at it just for the sake of it."
They pause and shake in what one might assume is a laugh, "What a fun idiom 'thumb your nose at it' when I have neither! I wonder when I picked that one up." It extrudes a thicker pseudopod and, with seeming concentration, forms the crudest facsimile of a humanoid face. Truly little more than bumps and divots in, roughly, the appropriate places. A second, thinner one, joins it splitting into five tendrils at the end, eventually remembers to modify the size and shape of the 'thumb', then tries to figure out how exactly one
is supposed to thumb their nose.
After a few seconds of this it collapses back into their more liquid form, "Oh, sorry, got distracted there for a moment. I can try that on my own time I suppose." Recalling the topic that had caught their own interest they return to it, "I don't suppose you'd be willing to experience such a reaction at some point where I could share in it, would you? I'm glad to hear it's not lethal... it is
very hard to get people to share lethal experiences."